New `decnet listener` command runs the master-side RFC 5425 syslog-TLS
receiver as a standalone process (mirrors `decnet api` / `decnet swarmctl`
pattern, SIGTERM/SIGINT handlers, --daemon support).
`decnet agent` now accepts --agent-dir so operators running the worker
agent under sudo/root can point at a bundle outside /root/.decnet/agent
(the HOME under sudo propagation).
Both flags were needed to stand up the full SWARM pipeline end-to-end on
a throwaway VM: mTLS control plane reachable, syslog-over-TLS wire
confirmed via tcpdump, master-crash/resume proved with zero loss and
zero duplication across 10 forwarded lines.
pyproject: bump asyncmy floor to 0.2.11 (resolver already pulled this in).