New log_relay.py replaces raw 'cat' on the rsyslog pipe. Intercepts
sshd and bash lines and re-emits them as structured RFC 5424 events:
login_success, session_opened, disconnect, connection_closed, command.
Parsers updated to accept non-nil PROCID (sshd uses PID).
real_ssh was a separate service name pointing to the same template and
behaviour as ssh. Merged them: ssh is now the single real-OpenSSH service.
- Rename templates/real_ssh/ → templates/ssh/
- Remove decnet/services/real_ssh.py
- Deaddeck archetype updated: services=["ssh"]
- Merge test_real_ssh.py into test_ssh.py (includes deaddeck + logging tests)
- Drop decnet.services.real_ssh from test_build module list
