feat(mutator,web): live topology mutation pipeline backend (DEBT-030)

Wire the mutator and web API into the service bus so live-topology
edits flow sub-second from enqueue to UI:

- Mutator publishes every state transition on the bus (mutation.applying
  /applied/failed + topology.status). Fire-and-forget; DB stays source
  of truth.
- Mutator watch loop subscribes to topology.*.mutation.enqueued and
  wakes early via asyncio.Event — the 10s poll becomes a fallback
  heartbeat, not the primary dispatch trigger.
- POST /topologies/{id}/mutations publishes mutation.enqueued after
  the DB write succeeds.
- New GET /topologies/{id}/events SSE route: snapshot on connect
  (status + in-flight mutations), live forwards topology.{id}.>
  bus events, 15s keepalive. ?token= auth mirrors /stream.
- New decnet/bus/app.py — process-wide lazy bus singleton for the
  API, closed cleanly on lifespan shutdown.

decnet/web/api.py

@@ -127,6 +127,8 @@ async def lifespan(app: FastAPI) -> AsyncGenerator[None, None]:
                 pass
             except Exception as exc:
                 log.warning("Task shutdown error: %s", exc)
+    from decnet.bus.app import close_app_bus
+    await close_app_bus()
     from decnet.telemetry import shutdown_tracing
     shutdown_tracing()
     log.info("API shutdown complete")