feat(deploy): templatize systemd services on install_dir via Jinja2

Distros reserve /opt for different things (some package managers own it
outright), and a DECNET install that wants to live at /srv/decnet or
/usr/local/decnet had to hand-edit 13 service files post-install.

Converts every deploy/decnet-*.service to a .j2 template keyed on
{{ install_dir }}, rendered by `decnet init` at install time. All other
paths (log_dir, state_dir, runtime_dir, user, group) stay standard —
only install_dir varies.

Changes:
- deploy/decnet-*.service → deploy/decnet-*.service.j2 (13 files).
- decnet init gains --install-dir (default /opt/decnet, preserves
  existing behaviour byte-for-byte). Validates absolute-path at the
  CLI boundary. Threads through useradd --home-dir and the dir-creation
  list so the filesystem layout matches the rendered templates.
- _install_units renders via Jinja2 with StrictUndefined (typo → loud
  error, not a silent broken unit). SHA over rendered output so
  operators with a custom install_dir get idempotent re-runs.
- decnet.target, tmpfiles.d, polkit rule stay static — they don't
  reference install paths.
- 4 new tests: custom install_dir renders into units, default remains
  /opt/decnet, relative paths rejected, second run with same custom
  dir is idempotent.

deploy/decnet-updater.service.j2

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+[Unit]
+Description=DECNET Self-Updater (mTLS)
+Documentation=https://git.resacachile.cl/anti/DECNET/wiki/Remote-Updates
+After=network-online.target
+Wants=network-online.target
+# Deliberately NOT After=decnet-agent.service — the updater must come up even
+# when the agent is broken, since that is exactly when it is most useful.
+
+[Service]
+Type=simple
+User=decnet
+Group=decnet
+WorkingDirectory={{ install_dir }}
+EnvironmentFile=-{{ install_dir }}/.env.local
+ExecStart={{ install_dir }}/venv/bin/decnet updater \
+    --host 0.0.0.0 --port 8766 \
+    --updater-dir /etc/decnet/updater \
+    --install-dir {{ install_dir }} \
+    --agent-dir /etc/decnet/agent
+
+# The updater SIGTERMs the agent and spawns a new one. Same User=decnet means
+# signalling is allowed without CAP_KILL. It does not need NET_ADMIN/NET_RAW
+# itself — the new agent process picks those up from decnet-agent.service when
+# systemd restarts it (or from the agent's own unit's AmbientCapabilities when
+# spawned by the updater as a direct child).
+CapabilityBoundingSet=
+AmbientCapabilities=
+
+# Security Hardening
+NoNewPrivileges=yes
+ProtectSystem=full
+ProtectHome=read-only
+PrivateTmp=yes
+ProtectKernelTunables=yes
+ProtectKernelModules=yes
+ProtectControlGroups=yes
+RestrictSUIDSGID=yes
+LockPersonality=yes
+# Writes release slots, pip installs into venv, manages agent.pid.
+ReadWritePaths={{ install_dir }} /var/log/decnet
+
+Restart=on-failure
+RestartSec=5
+# Self-update replaces the process image via os.execv; the new binary answers
+# /health within 30 s. Give it headroom before systemd's own termination.
+TimeoutStopSec=30
+
+[Install]
+WantedBy=multi-user.target